CASH MEETS AND DRAIN GAMES
Added 2020-04-15 06:30:08 +0000 UTCIn Findom, cash meets and drain games are very common. Whereas drain games are mostly online, cash meets are in person. This is where Femdom and Findom become intersectional.
Cash Meet:
A cash meet involves the dominant party meeting up with the submissive party at an ATM, bank, or public setting. Cash meets should ALWAYS be in public spaces, no exceptions. These sessions are typically 10 minutes or less and can be paired with verbal or public humiliation. Usually, a sub will reach out asking for a cash meet. Make sure that you receive a deposit before the meet so that your time won’t ultimately be wasted. This can be anywhere from $50-$100. You can also require half deposit for the sub to “secure” their spot. The two of you then discuss an amount that you’d want at the meet.
You’ll then meet at a spot that you two have both agreed upon and the session should move smoothly. Usually, I take their cash and say something like “That’s what I thought loser!” or “You can do better next time” (no matter what amount they’ve given to me). Then the session is over. Easy enough, right?
Drain Game:
A drain game involves taking certain amounts of money back to back over a short period of time, usually random amounts. A sub will approach asking to be “drained”. You’d give them your payment method(s) and they will send. This can be the same as a RT (retweet) game on Twitter where a Domme gets paid per comment, like, and retweet on a specific post. Drain games don’t require deposits but RT games do.
Comments
Is it impossible or more difficult to be in findom and stay unidentifiable?
Tappan
2020-07-06 00:38:39 +0000 UTCAh! Thanks so much. I was at 7 and concerned that maybe I was being overzealous.
Eden
2020-05-08 13:04:26 +0000 UTCI post at minimum 10 times a day.
Mistress Marley
2020-05-08 12:54:42 +0000 UTCOk, I see. Is there perhaps such a thing as posting too much? I am also in a different country but I do my best to keep up with US time zones as that seems to b the most activity.
Eden
2020-05-08 12:48:49 +0000 UTCI’d say the opposite. Every time I log on twitter or fetlife I see dommes I know getting tributes or doing online drains. I’ve done three drains this week alone. I move around to the different sites and don’t stay on twitter
Mistress Marley
2020-05-08 12:41:59 +0000 UTCHas anyone else found findom business slow during corona? I started in march, not the most opportune time I know but I had a few drains and then it's been nothing. I know my posts are good and consistent but all I seem to be getting are lurkers...
Eden
2020-05-08 08:43:01 +0000 UTCis there aftercare for cash meets ? or do you just snatch it and go?
Rose Jack
2020-04-15 21:02:40 +0000 UTCI LOVE RTR Games...
Miss M.
2020-04-15 16:12:55 +0000 UTCInteresting, I hadn't heard of the RT game before! Def. want to try.
Rowan Rain
2020-04-15 08:30:16 +0000 UTC
