SESSION SERIES: HOW TO DO SKYPE SESSIONS

When it comes to Findom, Femdom, and SW in general, my favorite kind of sessions to do are Skype sessions. They are virtual, don't require you to meet up in person, and gives you the freedom to schedule them at your leisure. Being able to session from the safety and comfort of my home is a great feeling and with the right client, these kind of sessions can be exciting, interesting, and rewarding.

Types of session requests for Skype:

SPH

JOI

Foot worship

Ignore sessions

Verbal humiliation and humiliation in general

Tease and denial

Feminization 

Wallet drains

Introductory sessions (getting to know the sub to potentially build a D/s dynamic)

Typically on websites such as Niteflirt, Twitter, OF,or wherever else you host your content, you'll get subs that are interested in Skype sessions. You can also offer these sessions on your platforms for those that are looking for attention or want to serve beyond just text. With these sessions, SAFETY and CONSENT are still key, even if it is just virtual. Here are the steps that I take to ensure that I am keeping myself safe.

1. Ask for photo ID from the sub to confirm that they are who they say they are. If they aren't comfortable with giving their ID (people are human and will be uneasy about this especially with a Domme they are just serving for the first time) the next step is to have the submit a live photo on the KIK app. The Live Photo can't be photoshopped or deceitful as KIK only allows them to take a photo in the moment. REMINDER: Getting a Live Photo for an IN PERSON session is not ideal and you should stick to getting the photo ID. (<<< old method, not recommended due to modified Kik apps)

2. Once the ID is received, have the sub send you their Skype. I never give my Skype first as I like to have control over when I reach out to the sub for the first session. 

3. Set up a time for the meeting and use custom pricing based on how much you want to charge per minute, hour, etc. Remember that the timer starts as soon as you log in to that Skype session. If the sub is late, it still goes against their time and this can also be a way to require more tribute per every minute they are late. 

4. Start the session. Before the session began, you should already know what type of kink they wanted, received their tribute/deposit, and made sure you are comfortable with the type of session. DON'T OVERTHINK THIS. Remember that the sub is there to serve you and listen to your commands. Just like any in person session, you'll need to ask them their hard and soft limits, physical limitations, triggers, etc so that the session follows the SSC protocol (safe, sane, and consensual)

At the beginning of my sessions, I often go over my rules and do "call and response" with the sub. For example: "Repeat after me: I am a little beta that will obey everything Mistress Marley tells me to do and I live to worship and serve her." The sub will then repeat this back. Yes, it's simple, but it's a good start when it comes to building up and getting the sub into the space to be prepared to serve (especially with first time subs)

If it's an ignore session, these are easy. Just go about your normal routine and the subs will often beg you to speak to them as you continue to ignore. Feminization sessions online give you the opportunity to dress your sub up, have them do their own makeup, and model for you (my favorite sessions)

5. When you end the session, remember, AFTERCARE IS STILL IMPORTANT. Check in with the sub to see where they are mentally, give them feedback on their servitude, and check in on yourself to make sure that you're good as well.