REAL VS FAKE SUBS
Added 2022-03-03 15:57:11 +0000 UTCThis course pertains to online interactions with subs when it comes to Findom, online sessions, etc.
The term "real" pertains to subs who send tribute without being told, approach appropriately, and are intentional when booking sessions.
The term "fake" pertains to subs who drag out interactions, beg for your attention without sending, and inquire about sessions and then consistently ghost once replied to.
Real subs know that your time is valuable and not to be wasted. These subs have often already done their research on you regarding checking out your content, your links, and have located your payment methods. They have either sent a "silent tribute" (a tribute sent without them letting you know) or they have entered your inbox to let you know that they sent. A perfect message from a real sub would look like the following examples:
"Hello Goddess, I have sent tribute to your cash app with hopes to serve you in the future."
"Hi Mistress. I am interested in a Skype humiliation session. I've sent you tribute so please let me know your rates."
"Sent tribute. I am into humiliation and foot worship. Let me know if you offer these kind of sessions Goddess."
"Goddess I have filled out your sub application with the fee and I can't wait to hear back from you. I have some experience and have references from other Dommes I've had sessions with."
A real sub makes things easier by following your steps. However, you should ALWAYS make sure that your rules and protocol for bookings are CLEAR and VISIBLE on your pages so that potential subs aren't confused or lost when visiting your page.
A fake sub simply wants to harass, annoy, and waste your time. They often have no intention of booking with you or sending tribute, but want "free" kink. They will try to keep pushing conversation until they get what they want. If you suspect this is happening, DON'T ENGAGE. Even cursing them out can be a turn on for them to feel as if they got what they want. These are often Internet trolls or inexperienced subs. Here are some conversation examples:
"I want to worship your feet"
"Face sit me please goddess"
"Do you do sessions goddess I really want to worship you but I don't have any money right now"
"Hi" (the most annoying message. A lot of bots on twitter will send this. I don't even respond)
"I'm a sissy goddess punish me"
As you can see, these messages have no purpose nor do they give any information on how the sub is going to serve you (besides their needs). Again, don't engage. I just block and go.
Comments
I’m still trying to gain at least one loyal sub I have a loyal fans/ feet finder/ All things worn but I keep running into scammers or subs who don’t have any money
fatimah mingo
2024-03-07 03:09:16 +0000 UTCI needed this because I am new to the scene I get alot of "fake" subs or even disrespectful ones
amiracle
2023-12-06 15:28:55 +0000 UTCHow do you go about dealing with potential subs who live close to you vs. those that long distance? For example they don’t like to pay until meeting… a lot want to refuse the tribute because they don’t want to send money online.
Kennedy H
2023-06-14 22:54:32 +0000 UTCI’m trying to stay consistent with Twitter but I still haven’t been able to get a decent loyal sub.
Katie Belau
2023-01-06 21:49:36 +0000 UTCBoth!
Mistress Marley
2022-03-13 17:16:21 +0000 UTCI needed this because I've been having a hard time deciphering the fakes, is this more for twitter or would this apply to fetlife as well?
Madam Rue
2022-03-03 21:31:00 +0000 UTCI've had so many fakes recently I left FetLife. This is perfect timing. Thank you Mistress
Dymond
2022-03-03 16:17:09 +0000 UTC4 subs is quite a lot especially for those just starting out. Those 4 could be lifetime spoilers
Mistress Marley
2022-03-03 16:06:23 +0000 UTCI get a lot of fake subs, it’s so annoying I’ve probably only had 4 real subs
Mulani Love
2022-03-03 16:04:00 +0000 UTC