SESSION SERIES: PEGGING

Happy new year! Welcome to our first session series of the year: Pegging!

Pegging is the act of a wearing a strap on to enter the consenting party. In the Femdom space, this is one of the most requested things from subs. Although pegging can be fun, exhilarating, and pleasurable, there is a lot of protocol that goes into doing it safely.

1. Before indulging in any act (even pegging) you always have to discuss boundaries and limits with your partner. Ask them questions ranging from their tolerance of size to intensity. You definitely want to know if they've had experience before coming to you and what that experience looks like.

2. Choose the right tools. Make sure the strap on you are using fits perfectly against the body - anything too big or too small could be unsafe for the both of you. A non-porous silicone dildo can be cleaned and sanitized more easily than a porous one. 

3. Submissive body prep. Your sub should always be prepared before indulging. This means being cleaned out properly (enemas can help with this, but aren't always necessary) and not eating food that can induce an irritable bowel during the act. My protocol is that subs are to be completely cleaned out and shaven around the back door area. Good hygiene is a must!

4. Start out small if there is nervousness. You don't always have to go straight for the gusto - warm things up a bit. You can start with a finger or smaller toys depending on comfortability. Butt plugs are good here too. Never push beyond a limit.

5. Lube is your friend. I can not stress this enough! Silicone lube is good for play but keep in mind that it can break down dildos over time. Try looking for lubes that are both safe for play and your toys. 

6. Slow and steady. Build up the the intensity - make your sub work for it.