TIMING ONLINE SESSIONS
Added 2023-05-08 20:11:08 +0000 UTCSometimes before doing an online session, we might get nervous on how to fill in the time, especially if the session is 30 mins or more.
It’s best to not overthink these things and to instead come up with a schedule that can help you get through your session quickly and less awkwardly.
EXAMPLE: Foot worship virtual session (30 mins)
Set a time limit for each section of the session.
First 5 mins: Introductions, going over soft and hard limits, reiterating safe words, going over the type of session with the sub again
10-15 mins: Getting the sub into “sub space”. Teasing, talking, humiliating, etc. Delay showing your feet to really build up the tension and excitement of the session.
20 mins (or so): Displaying your feet - rubbing them, soles facing the camera, rubbing oil on them, verbal commands (really heavy foot stuff here!)
Last 5-10 mins: Aftercare, closing out session, asking how the sub feels, coming down for you as a Domme, etc
Reminder to take a deep breath before session; the sub is there to SERVE YOU. They are more likely more nervous than you and looking towards you for direction. You are the lead of the scene as the dominant party.
If it works better, try to map out or write out the session before logging on. A good session = client retention = $$$$!