THE BASICS OF ALL BASICS: WHERE TO START?
Added 2023-12-21 18:40:07 +0000 UTCA lot of you are new here and jumping STRAIGHT into the Discord chat asking questions that are ALREADY covered. You're making your journey harder and if you can't get through the basics, you'll pretty much stay stuck and stagnant. So after reading you all for filth just now, let me give you a little help on where to start (lol). ALSO REMINDER: YOU CAN SEARCH KEYWORDS AND TAGS HERE ON PATREON FOR WHAT YOU'RE LOOKING FOR. IT IS EASIER TO DO ON THE WEB BROWSER BUT YOU CAN ALSO DO IT ON THE APP.
BIG QUESTION BEFORE CONTINUING WITH ANY OF THESE STEPS: "WHY DO I WANT TO DO THIS WORK? WHAT DO I WANT TO GAIN FROM THIS ASIDE FROM MAKING MONEY? AM I READY FOR EVERYTHING THAT COMES WITH BEING A SWER? AM I MENTALLY PREPARED FOR ALL OF THIS?"
STEP ONE: DOMME/BRAND NAME
This should be self explanatory. You can't exist in this realm without a name. It should be unique TO YOU and should be something you are going to STICK with for majority, if not, your entire journey. It does not matter if it starts with Mistress, Goddess, Empress, etc - CHOOSE A NAME.
STEP TWO: DOMME/BRAND PERSONA
You also can't exist in this realm without a clear display of what you REPRESENT. If you are doing Domme work, decide what you are offering for content, in person sessions, and virtual sessions.
ONLY OFFER KINKS AND FETISHES THAT YOU ARE COMFORTABLE WITH AND SKILLED IN. IT IS UNETHICAL AS A DOMME TO HOST ANY KIND OF SESSION WITH A SUB WHEN YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU ARE DOING. There are tons of lessons here on the Patreon for help with certain kinks + fetishes and you can also use FETLIFE as a resource to find out what educational events are going on your city. SEARCH IN GROUPS + EVENTS ON FETLIFE. SEARCH BY CITY, STATE, COUNTRY, ETC.
ASK YOURSELF: AM I A VIRTUAL PRO DOMME/FINDOMME? DO I WANT TO DO IN PERSON? DO I WANT TO DO BOTH?
If you are doing regular Adult Content Creation, decide what you want to upload. (Nudity, non nudity, feet stuff, lingerie stuff, etc)
STEP THREE: AGE VERIFICATION
AGE VERIFICATION IS MANDATORY. Subs won't approach you, pages won't promote you, and you won't be taken seriously in this industry without having at least ONE form of age verification. This is done through signing up for adult sites that require your ID to verify you are of age. EVEN IF YOU DON'T HAVE CONTENT YET, TAKE THE TIME TO SIGN UP.
SITES TO SIGN UP ON:
How to use these sites and what they entail can be found in the table of contents: https://docs.google.com/document/d/17yDKHqj4tI38aaXwRUh3uf2LxEV_3jYLM98UNik6TeM/edit?usp=sharing
STEP FOUR: CONTENT CREATION
YOU ABSOLUTELY HAVE TO HAVE CONTENT TO BE SUCCESSFUL IN THIS INDUSTRY. There is no way around it. If you're someone who wants to make money and not have any content, go ahead and sign out for me. Refer to the table of contents regarding content creation.
https://docs.google.com/document/d/14Qs_uOlEdZYriDpWqUeGSjQNUg93857aSs2aEzCalrY/edit?usp=sharing
STEP FIVE: CONSISTENT MARKETING
Look at everything like running a business because this IS a business. You should always be advertising your content, your work, what you offer - make yourself visible in this space. You can not be lazy when you are just starting out. Every single day counts. Turn to auto tweet schedulers for help on making marketing easier.
STEP SIX: NETWORKING + EXPANDING
If you're interested in eventually doing in person, move from behind the computer screen and attend in person events, conventions, parties, etc. You can also access these through FetLife or ask around the community on Twitter.
TAKE YOUR TIME. WE HAVE THE OLDEST PROFESSION - WE ARE NEVER GOING OUT OF BUSINESS! <3
Comments
What an absolute plethora of knowledge and help. Invaluable. THANK YOU 🙏
Erin Harper
2024-11-17 12:06:55 +0000 UTCYou truly are a GEM dropping and sharing all this knowledge and data. You are appreciated🖤
Barbii Bossyanna
2024-03-13 04:31:46 +0000 UTC