HOW I MANAGE TO LOCK DOWN WHALE SUBS

For some of us, our perfect Femdom world would consist of an extremely wealthy sub who funds our life and takes care of every need while being submissive and respectful of a D/s dynamic.

These men do exist - they're called whale subs.

Whale subs are submissive men who tend to be wealthier than the average sub (thinks CEO's, politicians, celebs, Wall Street types) - they splurge on their kinks and fetishes all while respecting dynamics that are non sexual. This year alone, I've managed to snag two by stepping away from my computer screen and social media pages and socializing in person.

Consider this a dual lesson in both sugaring and Femdom.

To be in the path of the wealthy, you have to put yourself in places where they will appear. The mindset here should be a mix of common sense and manifestation - when we really want something, we try to ingrain it in our every day lives and mood boards. The same applies here.

Story time:

About a month ago, me and a gf decided to go to a cigar lounge that we usually go to, but hadn't been to since summer last year. The last time we went, there was an older man there (German) who had paid for our dinner, drinks, and was completely smitten with me. We had exchanged numbers but he disappeared after a week of texting.

So fast forward - we're back at the lounge and the first person I see when I walk in is him. Of course I ignore him (once you flake/ghost on me you don't exist) but he insisted on getting my attention. He walks over to our table and goes "Do you remember me?"

Me: Maybe - I think you were good at disappearing acts

Him: I know and I'm sorry, I was very busy

Me: Ok goes back to having convo with my gf

Him: Do you want me to cover your food and drinks tonight?

Me: You'll have to do more than that

Tell me why this man gets on one knee in the restaurant to ask for my forgiveness. Of course being a Dominatrix, I knew right then and there what time it was. So I allowed him to cover our bill. He waited all night for me to be finished eating before approaching again.

Long story short, after some conversation, he's booked his first intro dinner with me as a sub. He's into being used as furniture, being walked like a dog, and being humiliated. He said he's so used to being in charge at his company, he wants to feel submissive.

We ended up having dinner at my favorite steakhouse and he sends 4 figure tributes WEEKLY.

I say this to say - sometimes we may have a hard time showcasing our dominant energy online. Some of us might be better with in person settings where we can truly shine. When I am out and about at these places and showcase my naturally dominant aura, it draws the submissive types in like flies - I don't even have to ask if they are submissive or not. I just know!

Try your hand at visiting like minded places with a friend or solo (if you feel comfortable). REMEMBER TO ALWAY STAY SAFE.