HOW TO BREAK YOUR FIRST PAYPIG

Today we're going to learn how to drain a man with nothing but using your words. I'm going to break it down from the initial conversation all the way to end. Please note, this is a mock scene and you can change the wording based on your unique situation/scenario. This will help you learn how to spot a real paypig, how to pace yourself during the conversation, and how to build up sub retention. It will also help you see what language actually works when talking to paypigs.

STEP 1: The Approach

Sub’s DM: “Hey Goddess. I’m new to this but I’m curious. Not sure how it all works lol.”

Response: “Curiosity doesn’t pay my bills. My tribute is required to ask a question.”
(Tribute link)

Result: Tribute sent within 10 minutes (if tribute isn't sent or ignored, just block them. Don't send a follow up message to subs when it comes to tributes. You don't want to come off as begging.)

Why this works:
You don't over explain, you don't flirt, and you don't give them a pass for not being knowledgable. There is always a paywall to speak to you in Findom.

STEP 2: Initial Obedience Training

Once tribute is sent, I would reply: “Good. You’ve taken the first step in being obedient. Now send a selfie holding your wallet.” (this gives him a physical task and is something that I can use in content later if he consents to it.)

Reply: “What should I write on it?”

Me: “Write ‘PROPERTY OF MISTRESS MARLEY’ and hold it out with both hands while kneeling in front of the camera.

Result: He complied quick and easy with no pushback.

Why this worked:
I didn’t say “please.” and I used clear, commanding language and a task to trigger financial attachment + physical submission

STEP 3: Tasks, Tasks, Tasks!

I then sometimes give my paypigs up to 3 mini tasks. Here are some examples:

1. Write “PayPig” on a sticky note and stick it to his forehead

2. Count all his cash on video that he will be sending to me

3. Say an “I belong to you” mantra five times on audio and send it

After these tasks are complete, I like to go silent on my paypigs to get their mind turning and to see how far their devotion will go. Most of the time, they will send another tribute to attempt to satisfy me. Silence creates anxiety and craving. Remember: this is a mostly psychological kink.

STEP 4: Creating Retention

My next best practice is to keep him on a schedule so that sending to me is normalized and feels like breathing for him. Example:

Me: “Every Sunday at 7PM, you will tribute, with no excuses. . If I don’t see it, you’ll be ignored for 7 days.”

This creates a ritual and this is how you form devotion through habit,

Go forth and be great. Remember that every scenario won't be the same and as I always say: utilize that BLOCK button if you have to!