Did you notice at the end he was wearing her scarf?
Stacy Provenzano Eccleston
2024-10-25 19:01:31 +0000 UTC
Re: "disagreements happen in relationships sometimes and that doesn't mean you have to break up." I agree, and, there's a difference between a healthy disagreement or conflict and how he treated her - ignoring her and shutting her out during the dinner; questioning her memory of what happened; immediately going on the defensive when she states that he hurt her; treating her with outright disrespect, meanness, belittlement; questioning her sanity by calling her crazy, etc. His behaviors during the dinner and in the kitchen fight scene demonstrate he does not see her as an equal, he thinks he is justified in treating her like crap when she points out something he did that hurt her feelings, and he thinks that he is entitled to manipulate her into forgiving him and moving on after he blows up. Those are all really huge red flags. For their own safety, people need to try to leave relationships where their partner treats them that way. Those sorts of behaviors usually only get worse over time and can snowball into really dangerous situations. If people wanna learn more about this, I recommend this article: https://zawn.substack.com/p/relationship-red-flags-an-ongoing
Btw Neecee this comment is not meant as an attack on you. I know at the end of the video you talked about the gaslighting and manipulating. I just wanted to say this for anyone who is in or has been in a similar relationship. We are taught that the kind of stuff he did that night is "just a misunderstanding" and is okay as long as he apologizes later. If anyone reading this is in a similar situation, it's not okay and you do not have to continue giving chances to someone who treats you like this <3
Soren (formerly Magnolia)
2024-10-22 03:14:06 +0000 UTC