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Added 2021-08-28 02:34:33 +0000 UTC
You guys are probably tired of me by now...
Juli, I’m so sorry! you need to lawyer up and put in place some restraining orders to protect you and Josh! That bastard will have no good come to him. Only bad karma will fill his life! The lowest of low. Unfortunately, someone that can do that to their son has a special in hell! Many prayers and I hope things work out. It’s sad that good people get take advantage of. My mother used to say, don’t let like that change you but please stay vigilante and careful about the people you trust. But never change yourself because of scumbags! Don’t feel like an idiot. He’s the idiot! Your kind heart was too trusting in a person that didn’t deserve it. He’ll pay in the long run! I hope you get your store back! Much love to you and your family! Fry his ass to the extent of the law! Prayers!
Bitch 1
2021-09-04 03:59:53 +0000 UTC
Juli we're never "tired" of you. We're always here to support you no matter what the situation is! I'm so sorry you're going through this, it's not fair! Take all the time you need to figure this out and stay strong!
Jenn Rose
2021-08-31 01:59:53 +0000 UTC
im so sorry juli and you're not stupid. other peoples actions are not your fault.
ie
2021-08-29 13:54:36 +0000 UTC
I'm sorry. Please know you are in so many of our thoughts.
Ophelia
2021-08-28 23:50:03 +0000 UTC
Also who the fuck takes ADVANTAGE of your kids communication issues?!!! That's BEYOND messed up! And TERRIFYING that you might not know what have happened!
Natasha G
2021-08-28 22:30:42 +0000 UTC
i’m so happy that you have your brother with you there and that he is protecting you and your family
fry
2021-08-28 21:07:42 +0000 UTC
juli it's heartbreaking to see you like this im genuinely scared for you and i hope that you and your family are safe from someone like that i wish there was something we could do to keep you safe
fry
2021-08-28 20:56:37 +0000 UTC
That's horrible! 💔 Sorry to hear that happened. In my opinion, the person doesn't deserve you. You shouldn't blame yourself, and you have nothing to be sorry for. You're certainly NOT stupid, and that is ENTIRELY his fault! I'm speechless that you were threatened and got taken advantage of. You’re NOT an idiot! Wish you well, Juli. ❤️
Neddy
2021-08-28 11:58:41 +0000 UTC
I feel like when it comes to the parent of your child that is even MORE of a tough issue in terms of trust! I am sure I, myself, would WANT to trust the person for the sake of my kid-and hoping to have a better relationship with them in the future. So it's not stupid at ALL
Natasha G
2021-08-28 10:03:55 +0000 UTC
I’m so sorry Juli! This is just awful! We all love you x and we are always here for u! ❤️
Frankie
2021-08-28 08:53:35 +0000 UTC
We love you Juli
Angel Flores
2021-08-28 08:27:23 +0000 UTC
Juli, my love 🥺🥺🥺
I am so glad you are brave enough to share this with all of your patreons as well. I know at this point you’re probably tired of hearing me say this but: you deserve so much better than this. I can’t even imagne how you must be feeling. In any case, I am here for you always. ❤️
thisismaria27
2021-08-28 06:16:09 +0000 UTC
I am really sorry that you were cheated by someone that you trusted and I hope that you are able to get your store back and that you Josh and your mother are feeling better by now and by the way you are not an idiot your are a wonderful and compassionate woman and you and your family deserved much better then this
Egil Hellá
2021-08-28 05:46:57 +0000 UTC
Oh my gosh I’m so SO sorry this is happening.
Chandler .
2021-08-28 05:23:32 +0000 UTC
Jesus Christ Juli this was a lot, I'm so sorry you're going through all of this! Your ex sounds like a dick, and so very manipulative; plus physically abusive! That's so scary what he and his girlfriend threatened, and like others have said here... I think you should get a restraining order. It's also so great that you're getting the law involved at all because this is such a serious issue that can clearly endanger you, Josh, your mom, and your brother! Also Juli you were not stupid for trusting a person that you've known for a very long time, that's also the father of your kid. I completely get that you thought he changed, that has definitely happened to me before with people too. I'm way too nice and give people the benefit of the doubt. I'm starting to realize though that so many aren't as they seem, and I'm not saying I don't trust anyone... but I'm more cautious about it I guess. Anyway, I've said this before... but you are honestly such an amazing, kind, compassionate person Juli! You don't deserve any of this shit that's happening to you, and please don't think that you do! I personally totally understand why you vent on Patreon, we all care about you and your well-being so much more than a reaction video... honestly! I wish you well, and be safe Juli! Love you so much! :)
Nicole Sadler
2021-08-28 05:04:58 +0000 UTC
I’m so sorry that happened to you and honestly I’m probably too trusting also
Jacob Bess
2021-08-28 04:30:15 +0000 UTC
I'm so sorry. Babe, get everything in writing for the store, anything you have. Pictures, video anything. You're not stupid. You were being kind and he took advantage.
cbbred
2021-08-28 04:21:17 +0000 UTC
This is terrible, I’m so sorry this happened to you. You should NOT feel guilty about being betrayed by someone you trusted, this is entirely on him, not on you. I’m happy to know that you are taking legal actions and that you have the support of your mother and brother through this. Take care of yourself and do what you need to feel protected. Don’t feel rushed about reacting, this is totally understandable that you’re not in the right mindset right now, what is happening is so upsetting! I know that on my side, I’m not going anywhere and feel free to talk to us anytime you need, I’m glad if it helps.❤️
Myriam Daoust
2021-08-28 04:15:38 +0000 UTC
is it possible you could like change the locks so he can’t enter the store anymore?
fry
2021-08-28 04:01:05 +0000 UTC
Juli, you are not stupid and none of this is your fault. You deserve so much better than this❤️ I’m glad you’re going to speak to a lawyer, I hope it helps.
heather
2021-08-28 03:54:20 +0000 UTC
I am SO sorry! You do not deserve this at all. Don’t think for a second that this is in any way your fault because you trusted him. You’re not stupid. This is all on HIM, NOT you! I hope you and your family stay safe and you all get a good night’s sleep. Don’t feel rushed into reacting. I’m not going anywhere. You make sure that you and your family is taken care of. I wish I could do something to help! Sending positive thoughts your way ✨
Tory
2021-08-28 03:52:40 +0000 UTC
u good g no rush
John Smith • 22 years ago
2021-08-28 03:39:21 +0000 UTC
Julie you DO deserve better than this! Some people in this world are just asshole who take advantage of every situation that they can. At the end of the day you know that your heart was in the right place with all of the decisions you made so far. All that is important right now is keeping you and your family safe and doing whatever you need to do to protect what you love. Don't ever feel bad for talking to us, as you said this is your safe place to vent and we understand your situation and care about you and your well being. You have the right to be angry and upset about the situation, but try not to dwell too much on whether the decisions you made were the right ones but instead try to focus on the next steps forward. Be kind to yourself ❤, get some rest, and I hope you and your family stay safe!
Dominique
2021-08-28 03:31:18 +0000 UTC
I'm sorry this is happening Juli! 💔 Your ex is an abusive, manipulative asshole and his girlfriend seems even worse. I'm glad your going to the cops and getting lawyers. I don't know how it works in your country but you should get a restraining order against both of them. Praying for you, your mom, and Josh. 🙏
Caitlyn Skiff
2021-08-28 03:27:58 +0000 UTC
Or a taser. There are ones that look like flashlights
Bombardier M
2021-08-28 03:26:07 +0000 UTC
To anyone reading this: talk about yourself the way you’d talk about your best friend. If you wouldnt call your best friend stupid (which you wouldn’t), don’t call yourself stupid.
It’s something to practice but we all deserve to not have a terrible view about ourselves that people can push on us.
Nikki S
2021-08-28 03:19:06 +0000 UTC
Also its not your fault. He needed to be a man and take care if his son. He is an abusive a hole to needs to be out of your life.
Raina Williams
2021-08-28 03:09:09 +0000 UTC
real talk take care of yourself and yours thats whats important juli your not stupid your compassionate person unfortunately there're ass hats who take advantage of that but dont let them change you be strong and stand tall
James Germain
2021-08-28 03:06:14 +0000 UTC
You need to get a retraining order against him and his girlfriend. Also need to get pepper spray.
Raina Williams
2021-08-28 03:05:43 +0000 UTC
You are not stupid to trust him. He is stupid at what he did to you. He needs to be cut of your life asap.
Raina Williams
2021-08-28 02:56:29 +0000 UTC
I’m only 9 mins in but holy shit. Your ex is a disgusting piece of trash for doing that to you. I’d definitely be getting the law involved ASAP but I will continue watching your video. God that’s a nightmare that he is doing that to you. So abusive and manipulative. 💔🥺
Nikki S
2021-08-28 02:47:40 +0000 UTC
Anyone telling people they are just “making excuses” are not good people or they 100% don’t understand mental illness or physical illness.
Nikki S
2021-08-28 02:38:25 +0000 UTC
I wish I could hug you! We love you so much and you are going to get through this shitty time you’ve been going through, I promise. It will get better and we will be here with you through it. 🤍
Nikki S
2021-08-28 02:36:17 +0000 UTC