Patreon, R&P Q&A #196: Week 97

Try looking that up in NMMNG and do nice things for yourself like a massage once or twice a week. Normalize that behavior, remember you're the only one that owes yourself and is accountable to care for you. So if you don't do nice things for yourself why should anyone else???

JPa (Asking for A Friend)

I used to have fun fucking around with jump scares, tickles, pushing my ex off the bed. That shit slowly died and it never crossed my mind. Shit happens. Adjust.

what are your thoughts on on the book "Models- attract women through honesty". Found his explanation on neediness really helped me get my frame under control. Also really glad you had Playboy bunny on your channel I found there videos really helpful. Particularly their ones on being fun and playing small pranks on your wife. My wife has really eaten that stuff up and it really pointed to a weak spot in my game. I had been so concerned about maintaining my frame (strong man) that I forgot I need to be fun and not so serious all the time.

Kevlar_Soul

Thank you for the suggestion about reading Fez’s reports. I will defiantly reference back to them. Upon reflection I now realise that my biggest weakness is me not taking actions towards doing things for myself and leading myself towards the life I want. Despite having all the books, podcast and information. -This week My girlfriend and I are self-isolating due to covid. I find that STFU seems to be the best strategy for me so far because I tend to emote a lot. E.g. I cooked for me and my girlfriend and cleaned the dishes. Previously I used to pick a fight about this a lot. 30-40% of fights are because of chore play. She thanked me for cooking and washing up and mentioned it’s nice to know that i can look after her when she is ill. The next day she cooked and cleaned. Girlfriend asked me this week what are my plans for the relationship, she mentioned that we have been dating for 5 years and it just seems like we are cruising. At the start of the relationship, I mentioned previously to her I want to get married at the age that we at now. - When I lose frame, I default to cocky funny. This works out 2/3 of the time - Going to the gym 5/6 times a week - Sex happens 90% of the time I initiate. - Still working and reading the no more mr nice guy - Goals - One of my goals is to lead the relationship - Learn to be more action oriented - E.g. - Thank you for pushing me to write a basic business plan. Question – Why do I feel bad for doing things for myself? From the "Steel's Guide to Married Red Pill" Don’t say stuff that makes you look bad. Just shut up. Is this hiding the badness in relation to no more mr nice guy.

Cocky_funny