Upcoming Patreon, R&P Q&A #240
Added 2023-09-28 16:56:47 +0000 UTCHey fellas. Realized I didn't get this up until last minute, so we will do this one live tomorrow, friday 10AM - 12 EST
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yeah, no sense in negotiating. You attempt, and you get shot down. It doesn't always feel like it but that's a win. You can only control yourself. But this report could have been written as "I tried daily for 1.5 weeks and got shot down". The rest doesn't matter. Lifting, taking care of your own shit, catch and release, dressing well, smelling good. Which of these are you doing, which aren't you?
Op Sec
2023-10-03 17:56:00 +0000 UTCEdit: Sorry, didn’t know I was supposed to intro with my lifting numbers: 1 rep maxes: 315 on bench, 405 on squat, 500 on deadlift. Since I moved, I dropped my powerlifting coach and just been doing like StrongLifts. Undecided about whether I’ll go back to competitive powerlifting. I eat Vertical Diet (few exceptions), not tracking macros right now but will start again. Only meds I am on are Test C, my thyroid meds and Cialis (because Cialis and test is awesome). Post divorce moved from California to Texas a couple months ago. Finally settled in outside of Austin Bought a house, Great Migration from California, same story as everyone else in California. Had a painfully long close due to mortgage rules and was living out of a suitcase for four months. But closed, got my stuff, decorated everything … Ready to get on with life. Best advice for developing a new social circle in a new city? My hobbies are powerlifting, guns, and I like going out to the city for music. I also have a French Bulldog who is like catnip for girls. But more interested in developing a social circle outside of just sarging in bars on Saturday night… I am totally fine with sarging. Just looking for more advice on building a new circles. Sometimes feels weird at 43 although I do fall into friend groups easily.
LM
2023-10-01 22:16:38 +0000 UTC"I donf feel safe in my own bed" ... after 1.5 weeks of rejections in a row, i tried to initiate at night. she was alseep on the floor in the duaghters room 15 mins before this. i get a sigh, and a "i dont feel safe in my own bed" i say, explain that a bit more. she cant, but sometimes she dosn't want to come to bed. "because you have a husband that is trying to fuck you" she says " mabye if you didnt try this every night i would have sex more" ( i held in my giggle here at this bullshit) she says " im tired tonight." i say "tonight?" she says what do you mean? "tonight you are tired, what about all of the other nights?" she says "im half asleep i cant talk about this now." i say " ok sure, we can just Not talk about this another night " this was passive agressive from me. shouldnt have said this, she avoids any kind of self reflection or imporntant conversations. i know talking too much is bad, and ive probably done this too, but i hear you say honesty needs to be implemented aswell. im guessing i dont ask about having this conversation another day?
moby dick
2023-09-30 11:49:52 +0000 UTC
