Also, I don’t think that women want bad boys per se. Not mature women who want to settle down and have a family. But from my observation women want to feel wanted and needed, and the “good guy” is too considerate of either her feelings so he doesn’t make a move and be assertive, or he never does anything to distinguish himself as a possible partner. It is wired into our DNA from millennia ago that we want an alpha-male type who can protect us, give us children, be strong, etc. This day in age, I feel like for a lot of people that has been translated into liking “bad boys” who will be dominant and assertive and not sit back and let the woman handle the situation every time. Nice guys only finish last if they don’t try to come in first and offer a first place kind of advantage to who they want to mate, be it money, security at home, handsomeness, humor: whatever trait that woman considers as desirable to her. Also, as children, many girls are fed the princess getting rescued bullshit, and are fed ideals that girls should be tender, loving, play with dolls, be nurturing, and are generally weaker than boys who should be tough and rough. These gender roles are so ingrained in our blue and pink/cars vs dolls society that it just reinforces the tiny piece of hindbrain that says “men, strong, hunt, protect, alpha; woman, weak, bear child, omega”.
I’m half asleep so I’m sorry if that doesn’t make sense or pisses people off. I’m one of those people I can have full phone conversations or order things online in my sleep and not remember it
I_KPOP_Fan
2022-11-01 11:56:02 +0000 UTC
If any guy comes up to me I’ll meet him with pepper spray gel before I meet him with a conversation. Asexuality and Anxiety. I don’t want anyone.