Fireside Chats, Episode 14: Inside the Life of an LA Sugar Baby

LMFAO 25:16 THE WILLY WONKA FLUTE RINGTONE!!!!!

SaiyanABlazeNinja

I'd be curious to hear about her views on sugar babying vs escorting. It seems to me sugar babying is safer because you're able to screen clients better and can continue 1 or a few relationships for a long time vs seeing many different clients. However in some ways you lose autonomy since you are on call for that person. Given all the free time her particular arrangement is affording her would she consider escorting in addition to sugar babying so she can better set herself up with savings for the future? Also more of a comment but I find her constant insistence on his generosity strange, she says they've negotiated monthly wage and he pushed back against it. Also as you said it sounds like he could afford to pay her many times more without even worrying about it. Him paying her 7000$ based on how much money it sounds like he has is probably less generous then many Patrons.

Daniele Gaiotti

Colin you should of asked her where Aleppo is.

PanzerG2

Im 100% Hetero but I’m also not uncomfortable with recognizing a handsome man; I’d smash Colin. My question for Jane is what are her plans when she’s older, Time is not kind to anyone and when this is in a way based on her young beauty (I just mean there’s a reason John was looking for a girl that’s in her 20’s) so what’s her plan when she Ages out of this business?

Christopher Hopkins

Wow, what a great interview! I've always been fascinated by the women's perspective when it comes to "sex work" and semi-related arenas and this chat really intrigued me. I'm a little concerned for Jane Doe and her self-proclaimed superficiality, but that's just my personality projecting. It's definitely not for me to decide anything. She's free to do as she pleases, and obviously has the looks and personality to make this lifestyle work for her. She seems happy, and that's all good assuming no one is being hurt and it's all copacetic. Something about it all leaves me a tad uncomfortable, but again, that's just my upbringing at play. Again, great episode, as always!

Boots_33

Definitely an interesting conversation! I actually have two questions! First, and primarily, was a written contract drafted up and signed by John and Jane Doe and if so, what are some of the details of the contract? Second, I know Jane doesn't want to know about his sugar daddy history, but does she know/care if he has any other sugar babies and if she's cool with it, does she know anything about them?

Donald Eckels

Fascinating conversation. I'm curious what happens when John Doe is wanting sexy time but Jane doe is just not feeling it or whatever. Does she feel obligated to do it anyway because she's being paid? Does John Doe expect it from her no matter what?

Jason Nippard

Good questions! Thanks!

Colin Moriarty

Yeah, knowing where she wants to go from here is a big question. I'll be sure to follow up on this next time.

Colin Moriarty

Good question. Will ask.

Colin Moriarty

The woman wearing the CLS shirt is me, but I appreciate the compliment. =D

Colin Moriarty

Good question. Thanks!

Colin Moriarty

Well, I'll ask her to describe what happened leading up to the event. =) Good question.

Colin Moriarty

LOL.

Colin Moriarty

Thank you for listening (and your question!).

Colin Moriarty

Thanks ma!

Colin Moriarty

Fantastic question.

Colin Moriarty

Thank you for your question!

Colin Moriarty

The "commodification" of sex in our society is interesting, but it's also perpetual. Sex has been a commodity for likely tens of thousands of years. I think empowering women (or men) to do what they want in this regard, within reasonable parameters (which I think Jane Doe's situation meets), is preferable to feeding the dark underbelly that'll always be there regardless.

Colin Moriarty

Her candor was awesome!

Colin Moriarty

LOL. Thanks. =)

Colin Moriarty

Thank you. And I agree.

Colin Moriarty

She kinda answered this in the podcast, no?!

Colin Moriarty

I wanna have CLS folks on every so often. I already have two guys in mind, actually, and will probably invite them on Q1 next year.

Colin Moriarty

I will be sure to ask her about that when I have her on again! Thank you for the question.

Colin Moriarty

That's the idea! I'm not inviting people onto the show to destroy them. I wanna hear what they have to say. Lots of interesting stuff going on out there.

Colin Moriarty

Thank you for your question.

Colin Moriarty

Thank you. I appreciate your kind words. I am trying my hardest to make Fireside Chats as versatile as possible, and I'm glad that's shining through.

Colin Moriarty

I know it! But then I need to get a third Zoom recorder. It's a whole thing.

Colin Moriarty

=)

Colin Moriarty

According to the website she uses, you can.

Colin Moriarty

=)

Colin Moriarty

Does Jane ever initiate meeting up by sending him a text or calling him? Do they text regularly when he is out of town?

Braeden

I'd be curious for you to dig deeper with her on her long term plan. If she's lucky, she's got 5-10 years of coasting until her goods are obsolete in this market. What are her long term goals. Is this just a gap filler, or is this part of her life plan. If she is banking away piles of money and investing wisely, it could be a great strategy. However, I fear she is going to fall victim to the same situation many stay at home wives find when a relationship falls apart. Only she won't have the alimony to fall back on. Her marketable skills that exist will be woefully out of date, and she will be decades behind her peers. Also, Uncle Sam catching up with her could be catastrophic at this point.

Chris Holtzer

Loved this episode. Question to contribute. Does she find that more people are willing to disclose to her their acceptance to her lifestyle in private than would openly do so?

Anthony Wright

Jane said her sister knows about the arrangement, but do her parents? What do they think?

And a question for Colin: is Jane Doe the model who is wearing the CLS shirt?

TheSevenLiner

Please ask her to describe the very first time that she had sex for money.

TheSevenLiner

She sounds hot.

Dennis Parker

Very interesting talk and I would ask what is the post John Doe plan for your life job wise and or personal life? Really enjoyed hearing the openness of Jane doe. Thanks for sharing.

Eric S

Completely fascinating. Great interview! ❤️

BettyAnn Moriarty

I was wondering if she would ever be with someone that was married, if more money was involved and guy was nice? Because he is some celebrity, politician and so has to have his marriage and have a side chic.

Jason

This was a fascinating. I'd be interested in hearing if she thinks she would move onto another, similar arrangement if her current one were to end.

Josh Squires

This one really got me thinking. My first impression was that I really have no problem with what she chooses to do as long as it's not hurting anyone. Maybe I should have a problem with it though... these recent sexual assault/harassment scandals have made me start to think more deeply about the commodification of sex in our culture and how that affects our psychology over the long term. I think I have some questions for Jordan Peterson lol

Matt.D.T

Also, Jane Doe was shockingly honest with herself/you.

desperateLuck

Damn, that viagra conversation is gold.

desperateLuck

One of the most fascinating podcasts I’ve heard in a long time. That relationship will end with John Doe with a broken heart, though.

Marius Skarsem Pedersen

Question suggestion: Do you find Colin Moriarty attractive? 🤗

Jakeytar

Far and away the best podcast yet. I was surprised by your lack of hesitation to ask some of the harder questions - "expiration," tax (lol) etc. Maybe in the future you should hold a contest for local patrons of CLS with interesting backgrounds to get on the podcast for an interview - video submissions, voting (or random selection) etc? Could be cool

Wow. Awesome convo dude. Its amazing how people adjust to live their lives the way they want, and just how many options beautiful people have 😂😂. I spose the biggest question I have is what happens when he trades her in for a 'newer' model? There are clearly feelings involved for both parties, and I think if he cut her off and found someone else, she would take it pretty hard, as anyone would being rejected. Aside from that though, you were following the questioning in my head Colin. 👍

Smokey Joh

Another fascinating interview. I appreciate how fair Colin is with people he has on and let's them share their stories without judging them.

Matt Styka

As for a question - Do you (you being Jane Doe) think that anything in particular lead to this particular life style? like you hear about, I dunno daddy issues, family troubles, weird childhoods. Jane mentioned dabbling a bit in Boston, and such like did someone tell you about it, and you were just like "I'd do that?" - I dunno I'm like really interested in the psyche that lead to this type of life style.

Owen

Erin's side commentary on this was so great. Get that woman a mic. Your banter with her is hilarious and natural. - Very interesting episode, like you know these kinds of arrangements exist, but you don't like KNOW the dynamics. As you said many times "fascinating" - This podcast continues to be really cool with how different each and every episode is.

Owen

You need a third mic!

Dav9834

Whoops. This went up a day early. LOL. Ah well. Enjoy!

Colin Moriarty

Well this seems it’ll be good. Prettyyy pretttyyyyy pretttyyyyyyy good.

Nicholas Swanson

This should be interesting! I wonder if I could do the same as a man. Gonna listen later today!

Dav9834

What?

Steven Camilo