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I could not be more sorry that you had to put up with that shit. It is beyond the pale and completely inappropriate to say the least. Perhaps it was good intentioned, but you have every right to personal boundaries that need to be respected. Please know that your community stands by you, most of us at an appropriate distance, and will support you in any way you are comfortable with. Edit: My e-mail suggested that this was a new message and I didn't bother double checking the date until just now. Sorry to comment on something a month old. I'll keep my comment here because I stand by all of it regardless.

Andre

I got to this message late, but here's a lovely cat. His name is Gilmour, and I hope he makes your day feel a little more cozy. https://i.imgur.com/rwSJVy3.mp4

khaliqtessi

Please people be respectful to boundaries set by people (yes people) you follow. It's easy not to go against those boundaries, just don't do it.

JaySpotTx

Some people just need to shut the fuck up. Know your place people. Learn some conversational skills and stop being so fucking weird.

TADJV

Wtf is wrong with people? Parasocial-ass weirdo.

James Decker

It's already known not to dm content creators for things significantly less personal than their medical struggles. I have to assume they're younger if they just mentioned "hey, what if you get new organs?!" out of the blue, because that's easier to accept than an adult not understanding common sense.

Aye Jaye

Nah we here on Patreon need to be held to a higher standard

Tachyon Fast

The parasocial wikipedia doctors at it again

Consult Gold Experience Alicia it's the only way

Yagi di Hoshi

first it was yt comments, then it was twitter, now its patreon. who i gotta give the smack too now huh?

Slyghostchips

I'm sorry you're having to deal with that shit on top of the mountain of shit you're already dealing with.

Liesmith

I'm gonna give you advice whether you want it or not: Listen to your doctors, take care of yourself, and get plenty of rest!

Malkalypse

What?! A total stranger telling you what to do and how to live your life... Cringe

Jesus Lopez

Goddamn, I'm so sorry that happened to you.

Larry Gonzalez

Holy shit some people lack common sense

Captain Cepita

Parasocial as fuck holy hell.

matthew bremmer

damn would never inavde in a private matter to "stranger" online.

Sven Hegenbart

That's messed up

Vidolin

People really gotta mind their business holy shit. I hope your day goes better Alicia <3 !

Victor Vrignaud

You'll weird people need need to stop fr

HeavenlyNoomba

Ugh some people just weren't raised correctly. I can't imagine how frustrating it would be to open a message to some random person sticking their nose into something like that. I got a lot I wanna say, both in calling that person out and cheering you on but I feel the less said the better. You're a tough chick. You got this 💪 Ain't nobody on here need to be giving you life advice lol Wishing you all the best.

SomeoneElse

People are so weird Sending hugs

Fernando Alonso Wilford

Man, at least with the guy confusing cancer with scurvy, that shit was so wrong it was funny. This is just stupid. People really do be trying to backseat cancer smh

HappyDoodads

What's wrong with these weird people. I just don't get it.

Cat Punch Man

Doesn't even really matter. You would be overstepping even if Alicia was your personal friend.

Thiren_Skrymir

thank you i was just coming hear to say this but you beat me to it and said it much better than i could :)

daemon

Maybe you could try to make some FAQs. I know that most people don't read those, but maybe it will avoid at least some situations like this, especially for people who just joined in.

leviathan_13

people need to understand that just because you watch someone online do stuff, they are NOT your personal friend!!! you are not even a close friend! you are not (and this might be hard to some) their friend at all! you are part of the community yes BUT YOU DONT ACTUALLY KNOW THE PERSON BEHIND THE SCREEN and guess what they don't know you either. yes you """""know""""" who they are but you don't actually know them. love and support them all you want and they can also share all they personally feel like sharing about their life but besides that MIND YOUR OWN BUISSNESS..... and if you ever think to yourself: "hmm am i overstepping here?" the answer is always YES!!! sorry about the rant, this just happends too often and it really get under my skin also can this post be pinned alongside your update one or just add it as a reminder what DMs are for?

nick

I'm new to your community and love your reactions by the way, so it's sucks to hear someone was so entitled and stupid to do something like that. I hope you let kind messages brighten your day and not let that person sour it for good.

Acualsims

Someone actually managed to type that out without once thinking "Am I maybe overstepping here?" Seriously wtf.

Swan Ronson

They think you dunno how to make your own damn decisions? Jesus. Fuck that guy, and keep on keeping on, I dunno how you keep your attitude so positive, but it is inspiring fr

Vlee

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AonixGhostlyQ

Unsolicited Medical Advice is so fucking weird sorry you had to deal with that Alicia

Charlie baker

Some people are way too comfortable. Mad weird. Sorry you have to deal with that

mykanike

What the hell kind of self-important condescending Dunning-Kruger-ass social failure would even - aaauuugh that's infuriating.

Geth Who

What is wrong with these morons

Karma Farmer Llama Charmer Marmalade

Damn armchair doctors think they're gonna fix your life with a DM. Some people don't know how to be a PATRON without being PATRONizing 💀

Munir

Didn't know that was a thing, seems like a easy but bad option.

Razgar_dar

Sorry to hear about that

Marshmellodanny

I'm sorry you had to go through that.

Stefan Nelson

I'm so sorry, you had to go through that.

Allistair Caine

What a weirdo, imagine telling someone what to do with their own body, do they really think you haven’t considered that option yet??? 0 brains patron Fr

Ant

Yooooo what if they replace their own brains with new ones?......no, oh well 🤷 other than that sending good vibes to ya Alicia

Connor Wells

That's a yikes. I've only been watching for a little while but you've been pretty clear as to why you're going through treatment instead of just having it removed...

Zeallust

💜

Secco Mode

I am relatively new to the community and just found out about the situation a day ago. I’m sorry that some people overstep boundaries.

TI

Liiiike i’ve lost count of how many times she’s had to re explain it. And she looks worn out each time she finishes.

Crome221

Some folks are the absolute worst. My sympathies.

DRedd

Well said.

Crome221

That's so fucking twisted. I am so deeply sorry you had to deal with that. Even if it came from a genuine place of concern it is absolutely nobody's business but your own.

Koirby

What's even worse is that getting the DM here implies they're a Patreon donor, meaning they're likely familiar enough with your content to know that you really want to have a baby someday. For someone to suggest you remove the one organ that allows you to get the thing you want in life, while likely KNOWING that's what you want is not just stupid, it's directly insulting, and I don't know how I'd respond if someone gave me the same level of disrespect

Justin Payne

Especially to literally go out their way to dm the creator, about stuff that is not any of their business or place to suggest actions on.

TI

like as if any of the numerous doctors didn't bring that up, I'm sure Alicia has had to defend that decision with her life. sending you all the hugs and love Alicia ❤️

Harper

"Huh this YouTuber with a medical condition clearly has a doctor she's talking with about this very sensitive subject for her. But I have a high school degree, I should jump into her DMs and give her medical advice, I don't see any problems there" The stupidity of the human race still baffles me sometimes, and I feel sorry that you have to deal with it first-hand

Justin Payne

same, i just sent her 1 message per month with my Redemption. Wish her lots of health and love. And thats it, not very hard to leave person alone lol

Ivan

She also has a looooooot of dms/redemptions to sift through and take note of. Soooo plsssss don’t make it harder her. The less time she spends in DMs = more content. (However, idk how but she🫶 honestly pours sooo much of her own kindness into each and every one of her replies. 👏👏👏) I usually make sure to send my Ultimate redemption requests in 1 messages just so that it’s easy and there is no back and forth. Honestly, FR FR THO, Alicia 😭 is liiiiterally way too kind to her community; sooo plss 🙏🙏🙏 be as respectful as you can to her. Because she honestly deserves sooo much and more. Sincerely thank you ❤️💚🤎🤍

Crome221

I'll never understand the weird ass parasocial relationships people create with content creators. Like how tf can you just be so bold?

LampyLust

I wish those people understood that just because you're being open and sharing this with us doesn't mean that our opinions are necessary. It's your life and it's your choice.

Joseph Adams

Ah shit, well that sucks. I would never dare do something like that, its so disrespectful Im not even gonna try joking about it. Seriously just wish you the best and hope that it's not a recurring issue. Thanks for always providing for us fans when you can, your content is so fun and I love watching it, honestly one of my favourites. Hope you have a good day!

Lost Reflection

We support this message 👍 💪

TI

This is seriously not okay, putting something stupid in the comments is one thing and still not very good but going to dm's to talk about something so personal and not your business is really bad.

Gamer Kane

Fuck whoever did that. It's stupid how common that kind of attitude people have about serious personal business. I work in medicine and have heard so many stories of people getting weirdly personal about something they have no involvement in or right to discuss. PS. Sorry you had to deal with that shit.

Wolfman

Honestly that's fucked up, There isn't anyone here who knows more about what you going trough, Alicia than you yourself. Sending you shitty medical tips like you haven't gone trough every possible option with your doctors is just stupid and insensitive to the max. Some people are just bots.

Aqueriel

damn who knew the literal cure for cancer was just in your dms

Yan Daigon

Sorry to hear that happened. We all know your a real one and got this covered already. All the best vibes your way, you got this

Zee Grog

Blood shot first and asked questions later

Ranginald Vagel

I'm so sorry this happened to you Alicia. Especially since this isn't YouTube or Twitter, this is the Patreon where (one would believe) the people would actively support you and your choices and remember to read your posts, and respect the boundaries you've set for us. Again I'm sorry you're going through this especially with how rough the last few weeks have been for you as you've said recently. Just as you pointed out know me and many in the community are still here for you hun

Shykiba

I can’t even comprehend someone doing this. I am so sorry you had to go through this.

Michael Mavis

PS wishing you lot of rest and good health

Ivan

You got this 👍 💪

Andreas May

reminds me of Vitamine C dude few months back...

Ivan