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Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Thirteen: Follow-Up, part 1)

Chapter Thirteen of Dr Kirk Honda’s deep dive on apologies and forgiveness. 


00:00 Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Thirteen: Follow-Up, part 1)

00:25 Acceptance vs. forgiveness

05:30 Incest-like fantasies & shame

20:06 Acceptance with a clause

25:24 Forgiveness in Christianity

37:09 CBT skills in communication

42:23 Parental apologies & Dr. Kirk's apology

52:35 Apologies & internalized schemas

57:30 Apology law review

58:22 A narcissistic veil & difficulty apologizing

1:07:48 Upload errors


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Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Thirteen: Follow-Up, part 1)

Comments

Sorry, but I think this is chapter 12? Thank you, this has been an incredible deep dive!

N Raptor

Yeah, I try to explain jargon like that when I comes up. Thanks for the reminder.

Psychology In Seattle

Thank you for acknowledging that it's hard to follow abbreviations. You have over 300 k listeners, not all of us are that familiar with the terminology. Especially when it's not in our language. You probably don't fall for that, but I would appreciate if you would ask if your guests/co-hosts could avoid using them or give the meaning right after, so we don't have to stop and google. I was thinking of mentioning this at some point earlier, but I didn't want to be rude and it's such a minor thing. Thank you for the episode and have a nice weekend!

Helen


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