Can't diagnose a personality disorder just from learning about someone's family of origin relationships and not their adult behavior. That's like trying to solve a jigsaw puzzle with the picture pieces turned upside down. Your mother sounds very manipulative but even that alone is not enough to diagnose her with any disorder, let alone the children. But google "triangulation" "scapegoat" "golden child" and "inferiority complex" for illustrations of these dynamics in the psychological literature to learn more about how these interactions may have influenced your behavior as an adult, regardless of whether it is related to a PD, since even people who are subclinical when it comes to personality disorders can be harmed by and unconsciously repeat patterns of emotional abuse from childhood.
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