How To Find & Take Care Of A Boywife | The Horny Post | 10/17/23

So, you want a boywife? A little feminine boi dressed in cute girl clothes who loves you with all of his heart, cooks for you, cleans for you, and submits to your every sexual whim? Preferably younger and shorter? Well it may be the dream of many men to find a boy like that, taking on a domestic partner can be hard. In TODAY'S ECONOMY? How do you do it? Is it worth having to make the money for two people to live in order to have a boy who gives you massages, listens to your every problem, let's you cum in his mouth, shaves all of his body hair, and is so fragile both physically and emotionally that yelling at him will make him cry? If you answered yes, you have made your first step into owning a precious little boy. 

Owning? Did we just saw owning? We mean "having." After all, femboys are strong and independent creatures that can take care of themselves... Not! Most are so weak that they need to be property. The important thing is that both you and your femboy agree to this arrangement and that he's free to change it when he wants. (As if he would ever want it.) Anyway, now that you know what you want how do you get it?

The first step is finding a cute femboy. This is one of the hardest parts for two reasons. Firstly, a lot of femboys aren't public about being one. Secondly, some of us look no different from girls which makes finding us very hard. Here are some methods to find a femboy. 

1. Join Queer Clubs! If you live in a metro area, there are bound to be some queer clubs. Even in a small college town some queer clubs let in non-students. Do some googling and find queer groups online. Though it might take a few visits, you are bound to find a femboy. 

2. Looking In The Dark: Some very lonely and sad femboys in need of a man can be found at gay bathhouses. If you find a boy that has a dick and nipples that look like boobs, you've likely found a femboy. In a gay bathhouse, communication is different. Everyone knows why they are there. So, if you find a femboy graze his ass. This will likely lead to sex if he consents. Though this method can lead to one-time deals, it can also lead to a genuine relationship. 

3. Look online! Perhaps looking online is what you led you to my brand with my dumb little voice that makes you happy, but sad that you don't have a femboy in real life to say those things to you. However, one must look in city specific online spaces. On the infamous Reddit, there are subreddits pretty much for any city and ones for dating! Sometimes you can find femboys in these spaces. The important thing in trying to find a boywife online is that y'all live close by. Driving is expensive, and you might end up in a relationship that can't work due to the distance.

Now that we've gone under some methods to meet femboys, how do you get them to date you? Well, you don't! Don't try so hard or think about it much. Integrate into his friend group and make lots of friends. In this process, you'll find if he's the right femboy for you. Not all femboys are the same and just because someone is a cute one doesn't mean your personalities will match. By getting to know him as a friend, you'll discover if he's your type. Once you determine he is and you've been friends, the next part is surprisingly easy. If he likes you back and you spend enough time together, something WILL arise. Trust me. Us queer people can be very forward with each other. One day you'll be having a movie night with your friends and get seated next to him. And the next thing you know, he lays his head on your leg. Maybe you get a little wet or hard  (depending on your anatomy) , but be vigilant. A femboy just showed you that he trusts you and wants your affection. Ask him if he would like pets on the head and if he does start petting him. Call him a cutie and he'll blush and curl in. 

Everyone likes and needs affection, and no where is this more true than a single femboy. By giving him the warmth of your hand, feel free to tell him how you feel. Or maybe, he will tell you how he feels. You can tell that a femboy likes you if he gives you the pleading 🥺 face while looking up at you. That basically means he wants you to fuck him into oblivion. Most femboys are shy, so if you find yourself with a shy femboy it's time to take the lead. At an appropriate time, take your hand and cup his cheek; gently motioning his head to look at you. If he accepts your motion, kiss him. Femboys on hormones are very, very sensitive compared to most boys. By displaying your dominance and just touching him he will collapse into your body and give you all the control. This is the key moment where you establish your position over him. A femboy needs a strong guiding hand in his life to put him in his place. If you provide a safe environment for the little creature, he will obey you.

Every relationship gets tested. Some pass, and some fail. And often it takes many, many failures until you pass. Now that you have a femboy boyfriend, there is not much I can tell you on how to handle the relationship. Relationships are very personal and different for everyone involved. What would work for me might not work for you. However, there are some basic guidelines to follow.

1. Talk about what you want and what he wants. You want a boywife, but he may not want to be one. A lot of femboys are really good coders and engineers. As much as I like to tease, femboys are not inherently dumb. I am, but being a femboy can lead to anything. Being a coder, a biologist, a McDonald's cashier, really anything. If you want to have a long relationship with a femboy or really anybody, you need to communicate what you want out of the relationship.

2. If he wants to be a boywife, you are golden. It is at this time that you start preparing him. Make subtle suggestions about how pretty he'd look in an apron, buy him birthday gifts that suggests domesticity, and establish control over him (if he wants to be controlled.) If he's as submissive as me, he will love you dearly and start to become dependent on you. Adorn him with objects that suggest ownership. A great example of this is a collar. Collaring your femboy with a collar you picked out can be a very sweet moment. By collaring him, he will know you want to take care of him.

3. Don't try to change him. This is the biggest thing. The boy he is is the boy you get. If you don't like something about him that's not threatening, don't try to change his behavior. If you find one of his traits to be so bad that you cannot stand it, you have to end it.  It will be hard, but it will be better for both of you. You both deserve someone that accepts you. 

Now, you want to marry your femboy boyfriend. You've trained him on how to obey you, adorned him with objects of ownership, and claimed his body as your own. You know that he is the boy for you and would make a wonderful wife, but there's one problem. How do you afford it? Unless you are already financially well off, this can be a huge problem. But, there are some methods to "fix" the issue.

The first thing you have to ask yourself at this stage is, "is it more important to have financial security or love?" Both are needed. Some married couples with a domestic spouse make it work by not changing their lives very much when married. The term "House Wife" may have the word house, but it can be an apartment. There is nothing wrong living in a $800 USD/m apartment. You may feel the pressure to provide a house for your future boywife, but if he loves you he won't need a whole one. An apartment boywife can be just as fulfilling. 

The traditional route is to find a full time high paying job if you want to live in a house. Obviously, there is no easy way to do this. And it comes with the downside of barely getting to see your little house boy. While it can work with God-like scheduling, often your boywife will be left at home after cleaning everything with nothing to do but pound his dildo into him while thinking of you; possibly crying while doing so. A lonely boywife waiting for his spouse to come home can be fulfilling, however. Sometimes waiting and waiting for your love to arrive can send a lot of dopamine into a poor boywife's head. After working for a long time, imagine your boywife greeting you at the door looking all cute, taking off your shoes, jacket, and other items with the aroma of dinner in the background. You eat, and then watch TV while your horny boy cuddles into you begging for affection before fucking him hard and falling asleep with your dick still inside of him. It is an option, but one that is very hard to make work. 

Polyamory fixes a lot of the issues of the former method. By having a three-way or more relationship, two people can work while 1 stays at home. This is a method I've given thought to myself. If you are okay with sharing your boywife with another person that you also love, this kind of work out perfectly. You don't have to work all the time, your boywife takes care of the house, and on occasion you get to have a threesome. I actually explore this concept in my "The House Femboy" series here on Patreon and Literotica. Except instead of 3 people, there's 22. 

The final method is one that I likely am going to do if my future husband cannot afford to take care of us on his own. You have a job, and your boywife has an online work-from-home job. While you work, your boywife takes care of the house and does online work on the side to bring in some extra cash. I for example started my content creation for this very reason. I want to be a boywife so, so bad but know most people can't afford a purely domestic partner. So, I launched my online brand so that when a man does make me his wife I will be able to help with the bills. I can take care of a house and do content creation. I am thinking in the long future of turning Boiwifey ASMR into an ASMR & Married Life brand. 

Before proposing, think about which method you want to implore. I suggest dating him for at least 2 years before proposing. That way you get to know what going through the years' events together is like. You can wait longer or less, but that's my suggestion. 5 years at the most. If you're not marrying your femboy after 5 years together, you're either against the idea of marriage or are doing something wrong. But at last, you propose to your femboy and in an x amount of time you marry him. 

Now you have a beautiful submissive boywife. Maybe in a house, an apartment, or maybe you share him. Whatever the destination, you did it! But how do you take care of your boi? Well, relationships are a two way street. You will be taking care of him financially and he will be taking care of you. You both have to work hard to make it work. Sometimes you will both falter, but that's okay as long as you know you love each other. Taking care of a boy's needs is more than providing a roof over his head. It's also about reminding him of his place.

An obedient boywife is a happy boywife. Make sure he wears clothes that you approve of. If you want him looking skimpy, he should dress skimpy. If you want him looking modest, he should look modest. Make sure to caress his ass to remind him that you own it. He will love the dominance. Sometimes he might act bratty to get your attention. Make sure to punish him in a way you both agree on. And remember to reward him when he behaves. Rewarding is a very powerful psychological technique. A reward can be as simple as a "Good boy," or as complex as a dinner date. Reward the good behavior and he will be very happy. 

Sometimes in a marriage, things will get rough. What do you do when you and your boywife disagree on something? He may be subby, but sometimes he will not agree. It's important to remind him that he is very dumb and that you are very smart. Calling a femboy dumb causes him to fluster, but then get very horny. When you're mad at your boywife, there is nothing a good blowjob can't fix. Before you orgasm, stop, and then fuck him hard. He will know not to question you again.

Speaking of sex, how do you have sex with your boywife in a way that makes you both happy? Sex is very important to a marriage, so it's important to talk about and have it often. Maybe not every day, but I would say at least several times a month and at most 5 times a week. Sex is the way you communicate to your boywife who he is and where he belongs. Where he belongs in under you, on the bottom. You take charge of the sex life. When he starts acting horny around you, pick him up, and carry him to your bedroom. Even when you have friends over. When a femboy is horny, he needs to be taken care of ASAP. His bussy needs a regular supply of cum; either male or female liquid. The liquid absorbs into his skin and makes him happy and content. If he does not receive enough cum, he will become frustrated and act out. In order to keep your boywife docile, fuck him into the ground and don't let him touch his penis. Preferably, a boywife's penis should be locked up in chasity to keep him tame. But if he is not okay with that, don't let him touch himself. His only sexual pleasure should be from you using him. It is very important to remember this. You are his protector and the source of his happiness. He should only cum when you let him.

With that, we have concluded the basics on how to find and take care of your boywife. Don't give it up. There is a boy for you. Maybe closer than you think 🥺