AUDIO: The Kama Sutra Episode

Yeah vast majority of the times I've faked it was because the sex was just not good and I wasn't interested in the person long term

Exactly ❤️ for some it can be a very hard pill to swallow which is understandable but honestly it’s about HOW and WHEN you deliver the criticism to the other person. I’d be offended too if someone said “you suck in bed” right off the hop as it’s a natural instinct to get defensive and insecure and say shit back. Saying what you want in bed is sexy and confident hut without being harsh about it and trust me I’ve done too and works every time!

Alessia

A lot of women tend of fake orgasms cause rejection/criticism is so hard for some ppl. But honestly you can go so many ways around it. You can sexy it up and be like “you know what’s really hot??😏 when you touch/lick/suck/kiss me here..” etc or to get spicy in the bedroom you go “babe, guess what I heard on a podcast/ from my friends.. I couldn’t stop thinking about you doing this to me and it’s SO hot..” it’s just about being considerate about the other person’s feelings as it can be sensitive subject. Sex is supposed to be fun for both sides plus spicing things up from time to time is extremely hot 😜

Alessia

Facts ❤️

the scream that left my body when me AND frankie said “lets talk about sex baby!” at the same time

I love this podcast but I sometimes wish y’all had a “ask a woman” segment. 🤣

Ashley

I had to comment- women will fake it because a lot of men will gaslight you into feeling guilty about why you didn’t orgasm. Making it seem like it’s your own fault and not because his dick wasn’t magic. So most women would rather deal with getting it over with than listen to the argument. In my personal experience- men can be very lazy in bed because it’s easy for them to reach completion. They expect it to be as easy for women. Less than half of women can orgasm through penetrative sex alone. Most need assistance and unfortunately a lot of men view sex toys as competition or it makes them feel inadequate so they don’t want their partners using them because of their fucking egos. It’s a horrible vicious cycle but a lot of women are getting to a point where they are speaking up about it.

Ashley