I have some news…

So I am pregnant 😂 Despite the fact that I have an IUD in (supposed to be the most effective birth control) God has different plans. I’m nervous as all hell bc my partner and I have only been together for 1 year. My partner is young and was not ready or prepared for a kid so I told him that I’m 100% giving him the choice. He doesn’t have to be a Dad if he doesn’t want to and I wouldn’t go for child support as I understand that I’m PUTTING a baby in his life. I just don’t feel that abortion is an option here. We sat down and made a plan together that worked for the both of us. We will remain living separately and the baby will primarily live with me. I will NOT be going for child support as he work hard and still doesn’t make much money so how fair would that be. I am very scared because I wasn’t planning this. I did NOT want to have a second baby unmarried, but how does one get pregnant on birth control and just say “nope!”. I’m pro choice when there’s no other choice. I have the ability so I will assume responsibility for my child NO MATTER WHAT! Callum has expressed extreme importance in being there for his baby so I will do everything I can to be there for him as well. I’m scared, nervous, and excited but I’m gonna be a great mom. I’m scared that dating may not be easy for me in the future due to having two kids, but I’m a high value woman. I financially support my men, emotionally support them, I don’t go for child support and I DONT baby trap. So I hope a man will still want to marry me some day if for some reason my partner and I don’t work out ya know? I’m scared…

Thank you for ALL YOUR SUPPORT! I’m really committed to working hard until this baby comes to get everything I need to get together. Ask me questions cuz I just want to talk about it! It’s OUR SECRET as I will be keeping it private from the public so I’m trusting you guys to keep it here!!! ❤️