I NEED your advice URGENTLY especially if you’re a PARENT.
Added 2021-10-17 20:25:20 +0000 UTCMy daughter is 4 and hangs out with this little boy she’s known for a while. She went for a visit with him and came back saying he was trying to force her to look at his wiener. Hosanna and I talked about it, I explained she wasn’t in trouble and that his Behaviour wasn’t appropriate. When I went to discuss this with the adult who was in charge of them at the time it happened, he BLOCKED ME when I disclosed what hosanna had told me. Now look, kids are curious. I’m not suggesting this kid is a little predator by ANY means! But my concern is the adults unwillingness to talk about it. I believe it’s important. If my son was forcing little girls to look at his wiener we would be having a discussion about it despite whether I felt it was innocent or not. SAME GOES FOR MY DAUGHTER if she was to be flashing herself. What would YOU do if you were in this situation. The adults unwillingness to talk makes me feel like something else may have happened that I’m not aware of. I don’t have parents or adults in my life to guide my young ass. Need some parental advice here.
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When I was about ten, an older girl wanted to show me her bits. Just make sure you let her know proper boundaries, because girls do that too.
Barry Goldberg
2021-10-18 17:04:17 +0000 UTC